Issues with dating a recovering alcoholic
It was the best gift I could have allowed myself to receive. He has been to detox 3 or 4 times, meetings, jail and rehab.
I am not sure he has ever made it a year clean but, he always goes back.
I would not ever question staying or leaving if I did not have a son with this man.
It’s important to remember your dreams and So, let’s agree that we are not going to focus on staying or leaving because we both know that it’s just not that simple.
I am completing certification in teaching yoga to recovering addicts and their loved ones. This would be a perfect time to add some personal time. You can then plan an intervention and set boundaries: your husband should seek help or you’re out of there.
Though my finances and credit score have taken a huge hit, I hope to be able to earn my Psy D in psychology, a life goal. I’ve been married to my husband almost 23yrs, my husband recently got out of treatment in July 2013 but has relapse for the past 3 weeks of continuous drinking.
The charming, thoughtful, and kind man you know he was created to be. But you know in your soul that being with him is damaging yours. Because in those dark moments of despair when he lies passed out or didn’t come home again, you feel crazy for staying. This is an awful disease that takes over the life’s of the man who is drinking and using drugs and from those who love him.
To turn your back on someone who is slowly killing themselves. Every now and then you see a glimmer of hope of he man you feel in love with. When you nag him or yell at him – you are feeding this horrible disease that is taking over your life. When you give him the silent treatment and refuse to talk to him until he tells you what you want to hear – you are enabling. And anyone who has spent one second in your shoes would be too.